Your faith has been scripted by the fairies of destination and you have picked a fallen angel for your life. Every single aspect of life seems to work absolutely fine, but you need to know one thing, getting to the point of bending knees to purpose doesn’t necessarily require pounds of guts. What is more difficult is being in a life-long relationship with your beloved one.
Mind you, the game of marriage is definitely not the Hunger Games. You need to dwell sweat, dedication and care with drops of love to hold its bond. Or else, we all know the end result, don’t we?
Now that’s enough of blabbering, the focal point is – the qualities a man should have to call him a perfect husband. What are they? Well, we are diving into 15 effectual qualities… so follow me: D
#1. Get Ready to Tighten Few Screws
Whether you like it or not, you must possess a set of skills to play with the light-weight machineries or tools. Yes! This may not feel like romantic, but a guy turns into a husband when he is able to fix few things around his house. And trust me! She will appreciate her man getting his hands dirty on the house hold tasks.
It is a hard-to-digest fact that there are women who find a man with a screwdriver a real turn-on. Can be your wife too: D
#2. Prepare to Kill Your Sleep
When it comes to romance, real life is no different than cinematic propaganda. As many story lines suggest- A remarkable husband needs to turn up his ears as well as eyes. A good husband is always a good listener and maintains eye contact with his wife to engage her.
Keep one thing straight – It doesn’t matter if she did anything wrong, she is always right in her virtue, and you must follow this rule too. So when she tells you to stop playing your PS4, it’s better that you turn it off.
#3. One Meal a Week Keeps Your Wife from Being a Sick
If you think just being good in the bed can please you wife, I may have to give you a reality knock-out. Yes, the tricks in bed have a significant role in healthy marriage, but you have to look through outer mirror too.
Cooking skills is one of those rare romantic things that will surely bring a smile on your wife’s face. Now I’m not saying that you have to be Jamie Oliver, but at least have one special meal up your sleeve. Serving your wife with your hand-made meal can seriously surprise her!
#4. A Sense of Humor
I consider my humor a secret weapon to smash my way through my wife’s anger management issues. To be honest, you need to have a sense of humor in your armory because you will need it eventually.
Proposals are all about asking a person to put up with all their annoyances and quirks for the rest of their life. Now it’s your choice to either blow it up and get mad about it, or make a laugh out of it. That’s a sense of humor for you. Choose your style of play.
#5. Women Want Everything to be Nice and Clean
When I say nice and clean, mark my words- it does include your grossly underwear too. Don’t expect your wife to love you back when she sees holes or skid marks on your underwear. Pop into Jockey or Calvin Klein for a change up.
As far as keeping your house is concerned, get a rule of thumb buddy, women are not big fans of waking up next to pizza boxes or dozens of empty beer bottles. They are pundits of keeping their homes soft and clean. If you want her to be with you for the next 50 years or so, you must have the habit of keeping everything nice and clean.
#6. The Rule of 3 C’s
My rule of 3 C’s stands for Compassion, Compromise and Communication. These 3 assets are must to have for any husband. If you don’t have any feelings for another’s suffering, you may not have true love for your wife. That is what compassion is all about.
A marriage sustains when you keep little threads of love, sacrifice and compromise together. If you love your wife immensely, you need to make few compromises or changes. I know men don’t like changes, but this is how it goes with wives.
One day she may come up with you and ask to leave your mother for her, now either you can make that compromise for her or you can apply rule no 3 – Communication. Trust me! A good communicator can convince his wife on anything. Now it’s your turn.
#7. An Ability to Share Your Feelings
If you love your wife, you need to say “I love you” every now and then. Confessing your love to your wife doesn’t give you a death sentence. It can only drive you to one track and that’s called the path of love.
I’ve known guys who have issues with confessing love to their wives, if you have similar problems; find ways to show them. How? Why not give a card with your hand written feelings in it. Best of all, you can surprise her with a beautiful gift. Everyone know that girls fantasize about gifts: D
#8. A Must-Have Saving Account
We know the amount of havoc money creates in any kind of relationship. When you are single, money may not matter the most. However, as a married couple, you need to make savings for your future. The last thing you want is to have silly arguments on things like you made these expenses or you are the reason we are in this situation. As i said earlier; Money is the demon my friend.
#9. The Ability to be Wrong and Forgive
We know that you are always right, except the time you are not. However, remember that marriage isn’t Halo and putting yourself in the winning coat is not going to annihilate your partner. Learn a special ingredient of being wrong for the sake of your love.
Similarly, learn how to forgive her for mistakes she had committed. You need to know how to let things go and move forward, mistakes will not live long with you, but she definitely will. Deep inside, you know that she definitely is worth it.
These are the 9 abilities or qualities you must have, to be called a good husband. What else do you think makes a man a perfect husband? Let us know in the comments below.